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Creativity as a Place to Belong: Making Art When You Feel Between Worlds

  • Surien Fourie
  • Jan 7
  • 3 min read

There are seasons in life when you don’t quite know where you belong.


Not because you are lost, but because you are layered — holding multiple identities, histories, places, and versions of yourself all at once. For many of us, belonging isn’t a destination we arrive at easily. It’s something we circle, revisit, and redefine over time.


For the Wandering Creative Soul, this feeling is familiar. You may feel at home everywhere and nowhere. Drawn to places, textures, languages, memories, and people — yet still sensing a quiet ache beneath it all. A longing not to arrive somewhere new, but to feel rooted within yourself.


This is where creativity becomes more than a practice. It becomes a place to belong.


When belonging isn’t external

We are often taught that belonging comes from fitting into a space — a community, a role, a place, a label. But for those who live between worlds — culturally, emotionally, creatively — belonging doesn’t always work that way.


Instead, it becomes internal.


Art offers a way to say:

I exist as I am — layered, unfinished, becoming.


You don’t need permission. You don’t need clarity. You don’t need to explain yourself.


When you sit down with paint, paper, thread, clay, collage, or words, you are creating a space where all parts of you are allowed to coexist. The parts that contradict. The parts that grieve. The parts that remember. The parts that hope.


Making as listening, not performing

So much of modern creativity is framed as output.

Post it. Finish it. Share it. Monetize it.


But belonging is not built through performance.


It is built through listening.


Listening to the body when it’s tired.

Listening to the grief that doesn’t have language.

Listening to the joy that feels too small to justify.


Creative practice — especially slow, tactile, intuitive making — invites you to listen without judgment. To follow marks rather than plans. To respond rather than control.


This is why so many people feel “at home” when they create, even if they don’t consider themselves artists.


It’s not about skill.

It’s about permission.


The studio as a threshold space

Think of your creative space — whether it’s a studio, a corner of a table, or a notebook carried everywhere — as a threshold.


A space between:

  • Past and present

  • Who you were and who you’re becoming

  • What you know and what you’re still learning


Threshold spaces are uncomfortable. They are also sacred.


In many cultures, thresholds are where transformation happens. Where stories are told. Where rituals begin.


Your art practice can be that kind of space — not a place of answers, but of holding.


Belonging through process, not outcome

One of the most healing shifts you can make is to stop asking:

“Is this good?”


And instead ask:

“Is this honest?”


Belonging doesn’t come from creating something impressive.

It comes from creating something true.


Messy layers.

Unfinished edges.

Materials that don’t behave.

Stories that don’t resolve neatly.


These are not failures — they are mirrors.



A gentle invitation

If you’ve been feeling between worlds lately, consider this your permission slip:


You don’t need to figure it all out before you create.

You don’t need a theme, a plan, or a goal.

You don’t need to know where you belong yet.


Sit with your materials.

Let them hold you.

Let them witness you.


Belonging, sometimes, begins the moment you stop searching for it outside yourself — and start making space within.


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